Four Tips to Protect Children during a Divorce

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Jeff Weissman, Attorney

Ranked among the American Academy of Trial Attorneys’ Premier 100 Trial Attorneys and a recipient of two Lawyer of the Year awards, Jeffrey A. Weissman is an experienced divorce lawyer in Boca Raton, Florida. Jeff Weissman’s legal services focus on areas of law involving spousal support, equitable distribution, and child custody.

Child custody professionals advise those involved in divorce proceedings to take the following precautions to protect children:

1. Consider litigation alternatives. Choosing a collaborative approach over traditional litigation can quicken the divorce process and may decrease contentiousness, which can limit children’s exposure to confrontational divorce proceedings. Additionally, this allows parents to focus more on co-parenting than legal concerns.

2. Distance children from drama. Never allow your children to see you fight with your ex-spouse, and keep them distanced from intimate details regarding disputes between adults. Avoid expressing negativity against the other parent in their presence, and do not pressure them to release details about their “other home.” Focus instead on the children’s well-being and making the transition easier for them.

3. Avoid loyalty conflicts. Avoid making your child feel as if they need to choose sides during a divorce, and allow them to express emotions about the other parent freely. Possibly the most damaging aspect of parental conflict, making a child choose sides can result in behavioral problems, isolation, and feelings of depression.

4. Communication is key. Maintain constant communication with your children to assure them that the divorce is not their fault. Children often blame themselves for divorce and need regular reminders that they hold no responsibility for the separation.


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Board certified in Marital and Family Law, attorney Jeff Weissman has been called to present at numerous conferences and seminars. He also authored the Parental Relocation Law, Section 61.13001, which was enacted in the State of Florida in 2006. Jeff Weissman has presented regularly for the Florida Bar Association, Family Law Section. In late 2010, Weissman spoke on practical and theoretical aspects of evidence within a family law context. Earlier that year, he gave a seminar on practice and procedure, which was attended by over 1,000 attorneys and other legal professionals from across Florida. In 2009, Jeff Weissman led seminars on equitable distribution and development of time-sharing parenting plans. He also moderated a judicial panel on parental relocation issues. These events each attracted hundreds of legal professionals. In addition, Weissman led basic family law seminars in Miami and Tampa, covering issues such as attorney’s fees, methods for determining jurisdiction, and practices and procedures. Jeff Weissman has also accepted speaking engagements in the corporate sector. Jeff Weissman studied at the University of Pennsylvania Law School, graduating in 1994. He has focused on family and marital law since that time, and he has served as a Partner at Gladstone & Weissman, P.A. for more than a decade. Weissman holds two Florida Supreme Court certifications: as a Mediator and a Guardian Ad Litem. He has been recognized with numerous professional awards, including repeat listings in Florida Super Lawyers and The Best Lawyers in America.

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